I wish I could help you with that. Unfortunately, I do not have the required experience to do so. But trust me, you'll have a person more experienced than me that will help you with what you want.
not the most experient guy out there, but check if the door uvs (both primary and secondary uv) aren't in a darker side of the texture, or check if it isn't a material related bug
nowdays there is a 'steering column' node/jbeam that dictates the location, as well as orientation, of the wheel so moving the correct nodes will dictate the wheel position and orientation
Idk if the forums is the best place to ask for modding advice, and this is also in the wrong section I'm pretty sure. I suggest asking on modding servers on discord or something